Dinner in Alexandra (Commentary Essay Collection)
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BY RMN
12 FEBRUARY 2026
In the Mountain Kingdom of Lesotho, certain words circulate with unusual familiarity: king, queen, prince, princess, palace. They are not relics of a distant past, nor ornamental terms used only on ceremonial occasions. They are part of everyday political and cultural consciousness. Lesotho is a constitutional monarchy, a system inherited at independence in 1966, shaped by both British constitutional influence and the undeniable Basotho traditions of kingship and collective identity. In this context, royalty is present, known, and understood.
Unlike celebrity cultures elsewhere, where titles are often metaphorical and self-assigned, monarchy in Lesotho is literal. It is structured, inherited, and bound by lineage. One does not become royal through ambition, popularity, or personal reinvention. Royalty runs through blood. Either one is born into it, or one is not.
There is a popular lyric that declares, “We’ll never be royals.” For many, it is sung playfully, even ironically. In Lesotho, the line lands differently. It is not an expression of rebellion, but a statement of fact. Royalty is not aspirational; it is predetermined. Prince Lerotholi Seeiso, the heir apparent to the throne of Lesotho, embodies this reality in its purest form.
Born on 18 April 2007 to King Letsie III and Queen ‘Masenate Mohato Seeiso, Prince Lerotholi was born into history. From birth, his position was defined. As the firstborn son of the reigning monarch, the third and youngest overall, his future was not a matter of choice or debate. In monarchies such as Lesotho’s, succession is not negotiated; it is assumed, prepared for, and patiently awaited.
Prince Lerotholi belongs to a generation of young Africans whose identities are not constructed through public relations or popularity. His significance lies in continuity — in the demanding, often majestic work of carrying history forward without distorting it. This is a form of responsibility that is not open to everyone, nor desired by many. Once one is born into royalty, especially as heir apparent, the self is no longer entirely personal. It becomes institutional.
In contemporary global culture, youth is often framed as disruption. To be young is to challenge, to reject what came before, to experience, to reinvent identity anew. Innovation is celebrated; inheritance is treated with suspicion. Yet within African monarchies such as that of Lesotho, youth assumes a different meaning. It is discipline. Learning how to hold the baton that will be handed to you.
Prince Lerotholi represents this alternative understanding of modern African life, one in which tradition is not a costume worn for ceremonies, but a living system that organises belonging, responsibility, and time itself. Tradition here is sustained through careful transmission, ritual, and restraint.
Royal inheritance is not a mere privilege; it is an obligation. To inherit lineage is to inherit honour, expectation, restraint, and legacy. It is to live with the awareness that one’s actions do not terminate at the self, but echo backwards into ancestry and forward into posterity. Unlike popular culture, where relevance often equates to following and audience, African royalty has historically been defined by measured presence. Authority is recognised, and Power is legitimised through continuity. The prince’s role lies precisely in not relying on public approval to assert importance. His presence is symbolic rather than promotional.
What makes Prince Lerotholi compelling as a contemporary subject is how he exists within an ancient institution while remaining undeniably modern. He is shaped by formal education, global exposure, and a world increasingly impatient with inherited structures of authority. At the same time, he remains accountable to ancestry, land, and collective identity. This tension is somehow internal. It is the ongoing work of negotiating continuity in a time obsessed with novelty.
In Lesotho, the monarchy is woven into social order, cultural coherence, and national memory. To be royal is not to stand above the people, but to embody them. The king is not simply a ruler, but a custodian of Basotho identity. This understanding shapes how leadership is imagined and practised.
This is also why African identity, as lived on the continent, rarely begins with race. It begins with place, ancestry, and community. One is Mosotho before one is anything else. Identity is grounded in belonging rather than classification. Prince Lerotholi does not need to articulate Africanness — he inhabits it. His identity is not explained through skin colour, but through lineage and responsibility.
This distinction becomes especially significant when African identity is viewed from outside the continent. Elsewhere, Africanness is often flattened into racial categories — “black” as a political or historical label. Within Africa, identity is more precise and more demanding. One belongs before one is labelled. The prince’s existence challenges race-based frameworks of identity without confronting them directly.
Visually, Prince Lerotholi’s presence reinforces this philosophy. There is restraint in posture, in dress, in bearing. Clothing does not chase trends; it signals continuity. Authority is communicated not through excess, but through balance. His public image resists exaggeration. This makes him an ideal subject for illustration rather than photography — not because he lacks visual interest, but because his power is conceptual as much as physical. Illustration allows for symbolism.
Towards the end of 2025, Prince Lerotholi was named Chancellor of Lerotholi Polytechnic, an institution of higher education in Lesotho. The appointment was historically significant. It positioned him as the youngest chancellor of a higher education institution in the world. Yet even this milestone was marked by symbolism. The role aligns with a long-standing association between Basotho royalty, education and national development.
The appointment was less about youth, fresh mind and innovation, and more about continuity. It signalled an intergenerational commitment to intellectual and institutional stewardship. In a global context where youth leadership is often framed as radical departure, Prince Lerotholi’s role suggested another model: leadership as a gradual assumption rather than sudden disruption.
What the future demands of figures like Prince Lerotholi is stewardship over reinvention. His role offers another possibility that progress can occur through preservation, care, and patience. That modernity does not require erasure. That the future can be shaped by those who understand where they come from.
Prince Lerotholi is not important because he is young, nor because he is royal. He is important because he represents an African mode of leadership that values continuity, responsibility and inheritance over invention and individualism.
BY RMN
12 FEBRUARY 2026
African parents possess wisdom that is above us. There is meaning in names, and sometimes that meaning becomes prophecy. In Sesotho, it says “Lebitso lebe ke seromo”, meaning a name that has a negative meaning will influence the person’s life and destiny. Names are powerful beyond mere naming a child.
In Setswana, Bonang means “look”. This is both a challenge and an invitation. Bonang commands authority that commands the world to look. And since her first television appearance at 15, the world has looked. Not just at Bonang Matheba, but through her, seeing ambition, style, reinvention, strategy, hardwork and the evolving shape of African influence in the 21st century. What began as a young presenter’s debut on SABC’s youth music show transformed over two decades into a blueprint for cultural authorship that no longer waits for validation. Bonang gave the people what they wanted, and the world, audibly and visually, has continued to look ever since.
There is one woman in South Africa—truly one—who consistently gives the people what they want. Born in Mahikeng in 1987, Bonang Dorothy Matheba grew up somewhere between the rhythms of townships and the aspirations of Johannesburg’s eastern borough. It was on television, in front of a camera, at age 15, that she found herself instinctively, rather than by accident. Her voice, immediately recognisable, became her instrument; Identity and announcement of presence before proclamation and a voice beyond a broadcasting tool.
From the outset, Bonang understood something many struggle to articulate: public presence is a form of currency, but without strategy, that is just noise. This realisation became her first lesson in personal branding long before the term became common parlance in South Africa’s creative economy.
Her early years on LIVE Amp on SABC 1 did not just introduce her to viewers; they taught her how to inhabit attention, how to stand out without being chaotic, and how to be interesting without frantic positioning. It was here that “Queen B” was born. A moniker that was not assigned to her so much as earned through presence, poise, and a calibrated voice.
Well before “personal brand” became a marketing label, Bonang was already building hers: selective and unmistakable.
Bonang’s career trajectory is not a series of accidents. It is a disciplined ascent — an architecture of public life with intention at its core. The television presenter became a radio personality; the radio personality became an author with From A to B; the author became a reality TV producer with Being Bonang; and the reality TV star became an entrepreneur whose name would be etched into bottles of Méthode Cap Classique (MCC) sparkling wine. This was not luck. It was strategic patience and understanding of business, culture and African premium brand clientele.
While others chased trends, Bonang anticipated them. She understood that cultural capital — the kind that lasts is not won in viral seconds but cultivated across seasons of consistency and forecasting of cultural shifts. Her selective presence, choosing when to publish, where to appear, and what to attach her name to, is the wisdom of someone who saw value in being visible on her terms, not on the world’s. That approach matters in showbusiness. It is the difference between noise and authority.
Bonang’s vocal presence was never an accident. It became her signature; an instrument she learned to wield with precision. Listening to Bonang host an event is not just hearing someone speak; it is encountering someone who has mastered rhythm, tone, and the expectancy of an audience. It is rare to find a host whose mere greeting sets the emotional temperature for a room. That is craft, not coincidence.
Her fashion choices: bold but never corny, African without cliché, elegant without erasure, have become an extension of this craft. Bonang dresses with intention; she does not wear clothes, she curates statements. Each appearance is a public exhibition of taste and confidence — a silent assertion of self-possession.
Her collaborations with African designers and international stylists are not superficial alliances. They are conversations between culture and craft. Between heritage and contemporaneity. And in a world dominated by fast fashion and fleeting trends, her alliance with style speaks of consistency and fidelity to aesthetic intelligence.
Perhaps nothing illustrates Bonang’s evolution from personality to institution better than House of BNG, her luxury beverage brand.
Launched in 2019, House of BNG was more than a business venture; it was a statement. A sparkling wine launch might have seemed like an unlikely direction for a media personality, but in Bonang’s hands, it became a love letter to Africa. Using grapes from the Stellenbosch region, she opted for Méthode Cap Classique instead of claiming Champagne — a subtle, yet profound assertion of African terroir and identity.
In doing so, she entered an industry long dominated by white male producers and carved space where there had been little. By 2024–2025, House of BNG celebrated five years of sparkling milestones, half a decade defined not just by sales figures but by cultural resonance.
The brand didn’t simply sell beverages; it became the drink of celebration. From presidential inaugurations to national pageants and premium lifestyle events, House of BNG became the choice at moments that matter. That’s not marketing. That’s cultural placement. And it confirms the strategic brilliance that has always defined Bonang’s career.
Her innovations: the Nectar range of canned MCCs, the expansion into retail chains like Woolworths and Checkers, and ongoing partnerships with hospitality groups, speak of a founder who understands that brand longevity requires more than aesthetics. It requires access, relevance, and integration into the lived experiences of people across the continent.
Bonang’s femininity is sovereign. She does not chase approval from institutions that once overlooked figures like her; she curates relevance. She moves through public life with intelligence and cultural confidence. An understanding that authority is earned not through spectacle, but through consistency, strategy, and fidelity to one’s own voice.
This is why Bonang does not need to chase TikTok trends or Instagram virality. Her influence is not a moment in the algorithm; it is a presence in memory. People recognise her work not because she demands attention, but because she commands it with clarity and intent.
In a world where visibility is often mistaken for significance, Bonang stands as proof that relevance is self-authored. She doesn’t need to signal that she matters. Her trajectory confirms it.
At the heart of Bonang’s evolution is a rare quality: she knows when not to speak as much as she knows what to say.
Her recent years, marked by reserved public appearances and a deeper focus on her brand and cultural impact, reflect an understanding that loudness rarely equates to substance. She no longer seeks relevance — she curates it. This is the mark of someone who has moved past external validation and toward internal authority.
Bonang Matheba is not a relic of yesterday’s fame. She is a live archive of cultural change — a figure whose career speaks to the power of intention, the discipline of craft, and the brilliant confidence required to shape culture rather than respond to it.
In her journey, from a teenager dreaming of television to a global brand builder, there is a clear thread: Bonang didn’t just want attention. She wanted influence. And she built it.
She gave the people what they wanted, and still at it — but she also taught them how to want better.
BY RMN
12 FEBRUARY 2026
Some people are not literary poets. They cannot write or rhyme with words. Their poetry is written in stone, glass, steel, and space — in light sliding across a concrete floor, in openings framed against a horizon, in walls that breathe with air and sunlight.
This is the poetry of Stefan Antoni: the architect whose work is less about decoration and more about the art of living. Driving through Clifton in Cape Town, past the curves of sand and sea, past the sequence of beaches that fade toward the horizon, one cannot help but sense architecture not simply as shelter, but as embodied experience. Here, Antoni’s work does not just occupy space; it resonates with the land, the light, the human spirit, the natural background of vegetation, rocks, and the elevation of the Twelve Apostles Mountain range.
Stefan Antoni was born, raised, and schooled in Cape Town — a city that, in its geography and culture, is itself an architectural poem. He grew up with Table Mountain to the north and the Atlantic stretching westward, and it was this landscape that shaped his earliest sense of space and form. Yet, the moment that would pull him into architecture came far from African shores. As a young boy on a trip to Poland, Antoni found himself inside a cathedral under construction and was struck by what he has since described as “magic” — the thrill of creating something from nothing but a blank site, a brief, and imagination. It was in that moment of space and possibility that the seed of architecture was planted in him.
Today, Antoni is principal and founder of SAOTA (Stefan Antoni Olmesdahl Truen Architects), the Cape Town–based firm with a global footprint. Under his direction, SAOTA has designed residential homes and projects in more than eighty countries spanning six continents. But it is in the South African landscape, where land, light, and culture converge, that his architectural voice is clearest.
At the core of Antoni’s work is a belief that architecture should be rooted in permanence, not fleeting beauty — a philosophy that rejects designs that fade with time, leak with rain, or deteriorate with wear. Instead, his buildings are crafted with integrity: clarity of form, honesty of materials, and an unfailing sensitivity to context. These are not houses built to be admired only in magazines — they are homes meant to be lived in, remembered, and felt. This ethos is central to SAOTA’s design philosophy, which prioritises connections between function and form to create spaces that are both elegant and purposeful. People do not live in aesthetics; they live in homes.
One of the most eloquent expressions of Antoni’s sensibility is his own residence in Clifton, Cape Town — a house literally perched on the shoulders of Lion’s Head, overlooking the Atlantic Ocean, the white sweep of beaches, and the iconic Twelve Apostles Mountains. The home, simply named Beyond, stands as both a personal statement and a case study in his architectural language: elemental, contextually attuned, and suffused with light.
From Nettleton Road, the house appears modest — a composition of levels stepping down the steep topography. But move inside, and the architecture reveals itself as a narrative in space. The principal living area sits at the topmost level, an expansive double-height volume where panoramic glass walls disappear to merge interior and exterior. One’s eye is drawn outward toward the sea; the horizon becomes the room’s natural ornament. The lower levels — bedrooms, spa, cinema, entertainment, unfold like chapters in a story that rises toward light and openness.
Beyond is more than a living space; it is a gallery of life. Antoni’s own collection of contemporary South African art punctuates its surfaces — from Paul Blomkamp tapestries to sculptures spread throughout the interior. Here, architecture and art are not separate disciplines but companions, conversation partners in the ongoing dance of form, light, and meaning.
What distinguishes Antoni’s work is how he treats architecture as experience, not object. A residence by his hand is more than a structure — it is a sequence of moments. One arrives from the street through shadowed inwards spaces, climbs through volumes defined by intersecting planes, and arrives at places where light seems to have its own intention. Materials — raw concrete, timber, and glass — are used with restraint, allowing texture and the play of light to become integral.
This approach is visible in other SAOTA projects as well. In Yzerfontein, a holiday residence north of Cape Town, horizontal glazing and intersecting forms allow the sea’s horizon to become both backdrop and participant in the spatial narrative. In urban interiors like De Waterkant, SAOTA’s designs skillfully negotiate the tension between urban density and luxury, creating spaces that feel open and comfortable within vibrant city textures.
Stefan Antoni’s architecture is a craft chiselled in listening to context, climate, and culture — a philosophy he attributes to his Cape Town upbringing. “Our brand is known for creating dynamic and dramatic spaces and memorable experiences,” Antoni once explained, describing a “Cape Town look” marked by modern aesthetics that engage light, space and charm, with an understanding of local climate and conditions shaping each design decision.
This deep respect for site underscores a larger commitment to timelessness and sustainability — a belief that architecture should work with nature, not against it. SAOTA’s work integrates environmental considerations, technical innovation, and cultural resonance, seeking solutions that respond to context, weather, and human use without resorting to gimmicks. In projects shortlisted for the World Architecture Festival, such as Kalahari Dunes and Upper Albert, the firm’s attention to passive design, local materials, and climate response demonstrates a global sensibility grounded in place.
But for Antoni, design is also personal. Architecture begins with the body in space — how we move, feel, and interact with light and materials. His own residence, Beyond, captures these principles: generous open volumes that invite reflection, spaces that foster connection with art and nature, and an architectural language that blurs interior and exterior through transparency and material continuity.
In the end, Stefan Antoni’s work is a reminder that architecture at its best is reconciled complexity. It is not about ornament; it is about purposeful form. It is about creating spaces that withstand time and weather, yes — but also create resonance in the human spirit. From Cape Town to Bel-Air, his buildings do not simply exist; they invite experience, framing light, landscape, and life in ways that feel poetic without being literal.
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